Friday, June 4, 2010

The Importance of Friendship-DD 6/4/2010

"Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy." Prov 27:6

One of the most difficult things in life is to be a true friend. Without a doubt, everyone has their own take on friendship. While we all refer to many as friends, when asked specifically about the concept of friendship, most would say that majority of their "friends" are acquaintances but real friends are few and those highly esteemed and closely held. Here is where the conversation must begin.

Even among those to whom we feel closest, what does being a friend really mean? To be sure, it involves companionship, good times, trust and reliance, but is that all? What about the other side of friendship? When your friend, your brother or sister in Christ, begins to participate in activities outside the tenants of the faith, are you the type to join in, keep silent or attempt to correct in the name of friendship?

Beloved we all appreciate the positives of familiar relationships, but the responsibility to provide assistance to maintain obedience to God is even more important. Consider the following:
  • "Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted." Gal 6:1
  • "My brethren, if any among you strays from the truth and one turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins." James 5:19-20

It will be a terrible thing to see anyone at judgement pass to destruction. How much more profound will be the hurt if a friend is among the unfortunate ones? As difficult as it may sometimes be, there is too much at stake to apply kisses where faithful wounds are required.

[Memory verse of the week: Phi 4:13]

In Revival,

Lee

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